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Resilience

Getting through difficult stretches without pretending they are easy.

You do not need to solve everything today.
Practices4

Resilience · 3 MIN

Reduce the field

Overwhelm is usually a problem of how much is in view, not how much exists. This narrows the view.

Resilience · 4 MIN

A floor for a hard day

Not a fix. A way to make a difficult day survivable without asking anything ambitious of yourself.

Resilience · 2 MIN

Make the next ten minutes better

The day is not salvageable as a whole. The next ten minutes usually are, and they are what you are actually in.

Worth reading

3 MIN READ

Building a floor rather than a plan

For difficult stretches, the useful question is not how to do well but how to keep standing.

In a hard week, plans tend to make things worse. They assume a version of you with more capacity than you currently have.

A floor is different. It is the short list of things that must happen — usually eating, sleeping, one obligation, one person you speak to honestly.

Keeping the floor is not failure. It is what makes the recovery possible when the week turns.

Reflect

What would make today survivable rather than successful?